Politically Correct? Suck It!!

Christmas is a sacred holiday for Christians and Catholics of all denominations. We are celebrating the birth of Jesus. Christmas is not about gift giving, Santa Clause, or even family. Christmas is about the celebration of the birth of the son of God and that is it. Don't get me wrong, I am not against giving gifts and getting together with family and friends. I am just tired of all of the "political correctness" trying to appease everyone.
The first thing that I can remember changing was instead of Christmas everyone started changing it to X-mas. To me X-mas is stupid and disrespectful. They say that X-mas is more politically correct because there are a lot of non-believers celebrating Christmas and they should remove Christ from the title. Why? Why should we have to remove Christ from the celebration of His birth? In my opinion, if you do not believe in Jesus as the son of God then you should not be celebrating Christmas. Most of all we should not have to modify the meaning of the holiday to make others feel better about encroaching on our celebration. I don't agree with any non-believer's celebrating a religious holiday. The atheists and other non-believing groups even took the changes a step farther. People have claimed that X-mas is even offensive because the "X" still symbolizes Christ. Now the politically correct thing to say is "Happy Holidays". How can someone get offended by a holiday that is not even their's to celebrate? All of you non-believers need to just leave all religious celebrations, ceremonies, and beliefs alone. Everyone has the right to believe what they want. When someone forces somebody else to completely change the meaning of their beliefs it becomes oppression. I thought that we are supposed to have freedom of religion and freedom of speech. I guess that freedom means you are only free to choose but not express unless you believe in nothing. I see a lot of atheists groups protesting all religions all over. There was even an atheist club at the college I attended and they were approaching other students and attempting to discredit all of their beliefs. How is that okay to verbally attack individuals but it is not okay to say Christmas because it may offend someone? I am sick of the attack on religion and I think we should stop all of the politically correct nonsense. It is called freedom of speech so instead of getting offend people need to just grow thicker skin and get over it. Everyone has their own beliefs and if you don't like what someone else believes in then go somewhere where freedom of religion is not tolerated.

Beating Sense Into Women

Okay, why do abused women lie to protect the men abusing them. Every time that I encounter abusive relationships (not my relationships) the women either deny that there is any abuse or they try to rationalize why the abuse is taking place. This especially infuriates me when there are children involved. It is one thing for a woman to get into an abusive relationship and accept the abuse as "normal" when they are on their own, but when you have kids and you invite an abusive man into your home it is so much worse. When you invite abusive people to be around your children not only are you endangering yourself but also your kids! When the abuse is at home now I see you as 1. Dumb for accepting an abusive relationship and not doing anything about it and 2. You are now a negligent mother for endangering your children! I can respect women's right to be in any relationship they want. If you choose to stay in an abusive situation then that is on you. I do not agree with it and it does frustrate me knowing that you would be stupid enough to do that but it is your choice and you have to deal with the results. When  kids are in the picture however, that's where I can no longer stand by and accept your decision as just a stupid mistake. Even though you are the mother and those are your children, you have no right to allow someone to come into their lives and abuse them. I am sick and tired of this neglect happening all the time. Not only are these women allowing their kids to be beaten, but then they have the nerve to defend the guy beating them. This issue hits very close to home for me but I will not say what is happening or who is involved. All I will say is I will not just stand by and let this continue.

 As for all the men that are the abusers, you are the second lowest pieces of filth ever to walk the planet (in my eyes). There is no reason ever for a man to lay hands on a woman. I don't care what the woman has done or what she is doing, physical violence is never acceptable! If you really think that these women love you they don't. These abused women are just scared of you and are afraid to do the right thing because they know that you will just hurt them more. This is my thoughts of what an abused woman thinks in these types of relationships, " If he is willing to hit me just because of an argument or disagreement, what is he capable of if I try to leave him?" I am not defending these women at all because it should never get to the point of that kind of fear. The first time a man physically hurts a woman should be the last contact that woman should have with that man. Most men are physically stronger than women in general so why would you think that beating on someone physically weaker than you makes you worthy of anything?

I just wish that women would be smarter, not only for themselves but for their children. Stop being so selfish and make your kids your number one priority, not your desperation to be with someone.

Charity Is Taboo??

Our country is full of self righteous greedy assholes! We complain that we do not get enough assistance, we need more food stamps, we need more welfare, give me more more more... We want more for doing nothing. We complain that all the help we receive is never enough. Then, when our fellow citizens decide to donate money, food, time, etc. to another country in need (for example the super typhoon in the Philippines) those same greedy bastards become outraged. "That (money/food/work) should stay here in America, we have people in need too!"
I agree that we need help in our country too but when we do get help it is abused and never appreciated. Every time I see a welfare parking lot all I see are new cars playing their expensive sound systems, with custom rims, people wearing all of the latest brands and fashions, and lots of jewelry (rings, necklaces, and even the stupid grill things on their teeth) all while standing in line to receive food stamps/cash aid because they "cannot afford to pay their bills and buy food". Our country is full of moronic people that expect to be taken care of. Women are having as many kids as possible knowing that the more they have the more money they will receive from the government and then they have the audacity to complain that it is not enough. Stop being reliant on someone else and get your lazy asses moving towards a more positive future. We need to be more self reliant and not so dependent on others to take care of our families. Most of all stop complaining when you see your fellow citizens decide to donate their own money to other countries.
Maybe people are more likely to donate to causes in other countries because they know that the people will be more appreciative of the help rather than our arrogant, narcissistic, self righteous assholes here in America. I know that life must be so hard for all of you with everything handed to you without any work done on your part (that is sarcasm for those too dumb to notice). Until our country can actually be grateful for what we have and appreciate what we are given, shut the hell up!!! Stop criticizing your fellow citizens for giving their help to others. We will be more likely to help those who actually show gratitude! Another thing is, This is their right to do with their money whatever they feel right. It is their choice to donate to certain causes. There are plenty of charity fundraisers for people here in the US and yet more people are willing to donate to outside organizations and that is their right. If you want more to go to the people here then you can donate here.

Ex's Go Away!

I hate when people try to talk to me like I have no clue what is going on. I am not an infant. I will not just accept whatever I am told. I do know a lot more than some people think. Why is it so hard for people to tell the truth? My ex-wife must have some mental disability or something seriously wrong with her. She lies about everything even the things that are not important at all. In fact if she would tell the truth it would actually be less harmful for all of the parties involved in just about every situation she has lied in. The most recent lies that are irritating me the most is about child support. She has made many, many attempts to raise the child support (even when I was already paying $880/month). I have talked to the child support offices many times and every time it is the same answer. I am told that she has made all of these requests and I am unable to file for reduction because she has a constant stream of requests filed. According to the child support offices I am unable to file a request for reduction until the other requests are dealt with. I really don't understand why she is doing this because the child support I have to pay doesn't even go to her or my children. The money I pay goes to the state because she has been on welfare for as long as I can remember now. The constant filing will not make a difference because of my income level but what really pisses me off is that she talks to me like I am an idiot!

Shut Up Already!!!

Almost everyone is complaining about all of the elected officials ruining our country. Well guess what, you elected them! You voted for all of their bills/laws! You are the reason our country is going to shit not any one individual. If you agree with portions of a bill/law but there are parts of it that worry you then you should vote against it until it is more reasonable. It is because of all the compromises that people are making thinking, " well, I agree with most of what they are saying". It is the small portions of these laws/bills that slip through the cracks creating the mess that we are in now. If you don't think the bill is perfect then don't accept it! It is a lot easier than most of you think. Stop accepting these motions or stop complaining about them! It is your fault and I am tired of hearing all the complaining about the president or a certain party ruining our economy.

Yes our politicians are corrupt, yes they come up with horrible ideas, and yes they are all liars, but you are the one that voted for them and you are the one that fell for the lies and deceitfulness. So just shut up and accept what you have done to this country instead of trying to put the blame on specific individuals!!!

What is a Man

I believe that being a man is not as complicated as most people assume it to be. Being a man simply means that you are true to yourself and do not change who you are for anyone else. I know a lot of people that judge what makes you a man based on superficial stereotypes. Men are always boasting about how many women they have slept with, how strong they are, how much they can drink, or even how many fights they have been in.

 In my eyes all of these arguments are ridiculous and don’t prove anything. A real man can commit to one woman and be happy knowing that he isn’t just like every other guy. I believe any man willing to sleep with anyone that is willing is disgusting. I believe that nobody should sleep with someone unless they are committed to that person (not necessarily marriage) and wanting a long term relationship with that person. I literally get sick when I think of how society treats sex as a casual pleasure rather than an expression of true love for one another. Also a real man doesn’t care if he can lift more weights than someone else. If you are working out you should do it for yourself, not to try and prove yourself to total strangers. When it comes to drinking I always see other grown men comparing how much they have had to drink and mocking the guys that haven’t had as much calling them “light-weights”. You shouldn’t be drinking as a competition. I have nothing wrong with having a drink but when you are attempting to drink as much as possible every time you drink then I believe that is wrong and extremely unhealthy. I also believe that being in fights with people does not make you more of a man it makes you a bully trying to make yourself feel better about your shallow personality.

I have only been with two women ever. I have been with my ex-wife and now I am with my current wife. I don’t try and show off while working out. I actually don’t like working out in front of anyone because of all the show boating that goes on. I very rarely drink and if I do it’s very little. The only person I have ever been in a fight with is my brother and I hate that we have even fought. I consider myself to be the opposite of most males but I also consider myself to be more honest with who I am. My honesty is what makes me a real man.   

Cancer is Cancer

Why is almost all of the cancer awareness campaigns about just breast cancer? There are many forms of cancer! My father died of malignant melanoma but do you see constant advertisements, fund raisers, or celebrity endorsements for that? NO! They sponsor breast cancer just about everywhere even on athletes during sporting events. I am not saying that supporting breast cancer is bad, I think it is great. I just think that there should be more awareness for the other types of cancer instead of so much emphasis on a specific type. This also makes me wonder if all the money raised for breast cancer goes to all cancer research or just that specific type? I also believe that most people already have an awareness of breast cancer so instead of using so much money on advertising and merchandise they should put every dime towards the actual research. All of the commercials, banners, billboards, etc... are a waste of the donations made.

I feel like the whole breast cancer awareness has become more of a marketing tool than actual effort for a cure. I do believe that there is work being done for a cure so don't get me wrong there, I just think that there are a lot of people using breast cancer to support their individual aspirations.

Halloween Downhill

What ever happened to the good old days where costumes were creative and actually looked like what they were supposed to be. Now all you see is poorly made plastic masks that are uncomfortable and not really resembling the characters. I miss seeing the full costumes not just a mask with printed clothing saying what you are supposed to be. I feel like the kids now are missing out on the full experience that most of us adults remember.
Another really irritating part of what used to be one of my favorite holidays, is women using costumes and masks to dress and act as slutty as possible. For some reason most people think that its okay to become a whore for the evening and they completely lose their inhibitions because they get to hide behind a mask. I have bad news for all of you that think that this is okay.... Your are still a whore when you wake up the next morning and the shame (if you have any) will not end because the night ended. You women dressed showing as much as possible without actually being nude are inviting judgment making most everyone think that you are ready and willing to do anything anywhere at anytime. Not only is it inappropriate to act and dress this way around other adults, it is especially inappropriate to act and dress this way around children. Nobody wants to see their mother dressed as a slutty character and just centimeters away from flashing all of her private areas to the world.

I wish they would bring back the higher quality, more realistic costumes so that our children can have a better experience and cover up all of these whores making Halloween become too inappropriate for children to enjoy.

My Recent Short Autobiography

The story of my life is not like many others. My family is a very dramatic and abnormal one. All that I want is to be successful and take care of my wife, kids, and family to the best of my ability.

 I married an extremely bipolar woman which I argued with on a daily basis about trivial things such as cookies. I have two young boys out of that first marriage and they are the only good things I got from that entire relationship. I divorced my first wife after the fourth time she cheated on me. My mother is schizophrenic, bipolar, manic depressive, and a few more that I cannot recall. My sister also has some mental health disorders such as manically depressed and bipolar. My brother has some issues as well but I am unsure of the actual diagnosis. My brother has been in and out of prison for the last eight years and is currently in recovery from a very bad meth addiction. My father was very short tempered and had constant mood swings but I don’t believe He ever went in for diagnosis. My father passed away on January 20, 2011 from skin cancer. The death of my father was extremely hard on the family but more on me than most. I moved to AZ to see him because that’s where he was being treated for the cancer. My mother was there with us but she was constantly high on opiates making it seem like I was alone. The night my father died everyone including the hospital staff turned to me to ask what was next. I was forced to make all the decisions myself because there was no one else. Two days after my father’s death my mother went into a complete mental breakdown. She started making comments about joining my father and how she felt that she has nobody left. She began seeing and hearing people that were not there claiming that they were outside of her window and laughing at her trying to make her look crazy. To make things worse during this break in reality my mother was also withdrawing from her extreme opiate addiction due to simply running out. Again I was cornered into a position where I was the only person there to do anything so I called a crisis line to report an emergency petition for the mental health of my mother and then I sat holding her while she screamed and cried for about three to four hours until someone showed up to take her for evaluation. She accused me of wanting to lock her away and just forget about her. She even made phone calls to the rest of our family including her father and mother stating that I have locked her up and she needed them to come and help her to get out. My mother’s father drove out to AZ to get her released from the hospitals care and I was hated by both my grandparents and a few other family members. My brother and sister told me that I have done the right thing but they also said things that seemed to contradict themselves. I was left in AZ alone without family and I stayed there for two years. I have never been in to see a doctor to get my official mental state because I am living in the ignorance is bliss state of mind. Although I have never been diagnosed I know that I have something going on that should be addressed. I have constant panic attacks when I go out into public places. The panic attacks have gotten so bad that I can’t breathe and feel as if I may faint at times. I also go through deep depression without understanding of why I am feeling this way. Even though I am constantly dealing with these internal struggles I have developed into a very nice easy going guy. I get along with almost anyone and have rarely had any conflicts with people outside of my family.

 I am now remarried to a wonderful Filipino woman that I met online in a chat room about music. I wasn’t looking for another relationship at that time. We were actually just friends for about two years talking very often almost every day and I just asked if she would be interested in a relationship. I ended up flying to the Philippines to see her after almost a year of being in a relationship. On the third day with her I proposed. It was a long stressful process which costs a lot of money to finish the paper work needed to get her a fiancé visa so that we can be together. We are still currently working on getting the money raised to complete her adjustment of status so that we can then work on getting her citizenship. It has been a long time in the works and very stressful but we are taking it one day at a time. She has now been in the United States for almost a year now and we are very happy together.

I want to be successful in life so that I can feel like all my struggles have not been for nothing. I originally started thinking of becoming a registered nurse so that I can help people and be able to make a good living. While living in AZ I got a job at a medical detox center. I dealt with drug addicts and alcoholics on a daily basis. Most of my coworkers constantly complained of the stress but secretly I felt like I was at home. Every day at work I felt like I was helping my family and I had a feeling of accomplishment at the end of every day. I worked at this facility for two years and because it was a nonprofit state funded business I lost my job due to budget cuts.  Since I started taking this psychology class I have changed what I want and I am taking the advice given to me and plan on changing my major to school psychology.

I want to have a career where I can help others. I don’t want a job that is just like any other job where the workers are like zombies just do work and leave with no sense of accomplishment. I want to go home every day knowing I made a positive impact on somebody and I wasn’t just going through the motions to get a paycheck. I feel like if something isn’t going to be positive then it isn’t worth doing. I don’t want to be selfish by working for my own personal gain and not giving anything back to society. Ever since I experienced the sense of accomplishment I got out of working for the medical detox, I haven’t felt good at any job since then.

The main thing I want is to take care of my family. I do want a job that helps others but I also want to be able to provide for my wife, kids, and family. I have moved into a house with my mother. My wife has agreed with me that we need to be there for her as best we can and we will take care of her, monitor her to keep her out of drugs and make sure that she is current on her psych meds and doctors appointments. I want my kids to be able to have the things I never did as a child, most important thing being an actual childhood.  My two boys mean the world to me and I don’t want them growing up wearing the hand-me-down clothing or having holes in their shoes. I want my kids to be proud of me and see that I would do anything for them.

All that I really want is to be a good provider. I want to provide for my family and provide a service to others in need. I want to be the best person that I can be. 

Miley "The Virus" Cyrus

Miley is one of the worst examples of how society embraces and enables bad behavior. She claims that she is acting out so that she can get rid of her Disney image. She says that she is young and should be able to make mistakes. I agree that she is young and should be able to make mistakes but what she is doing is not making mistakes. She is planning all of her actions out to gain the attention of everyone and thinks that it's cute. If she wanted to get rid of her Hannah Montana reputation all she had to do was live a normal life and when she did make a genuine mistake then people would slowly realize she has changed. Instead she decides to be a public whore groping and rubbing herself all over a married man. She has openly admitted to drug use and is trying to glorify her actions as cute and fun. The media is also feeding her all of the attention she is craving for so why would anyone expect her to stop all of this horrid disgusting behavior. She is in the spotlight more than ever now and even though she got a lot of negative feedback from some, it seems that there are even more defending her actions.
Miley is a great example of how horrible societies views have accepted the degraded moral values of so many people. It has become normal for women to be whores and proud of it. Men are the same sleeping with anything willing and some that are not. Kids getting pregnant younger and younger. Drugs are now known as a "phase" and it is expected for people to "experiment" with all types. I say that almost everyone has been corrupted by "normal behaviors" even though these behaviors would have never even been accepted just years ago.

Once again I will say People Equal Shit and I cant wait for some kind of reform to clean out all these disgusting viruses of society.

Sluts

Women and men are all the same now. Women think that in order to be loved they need to sleep with the guy that just bought them dinner or asked them out (sometimes that's even stretching the reality). Women justify this by saying that they are not sluts but instead they are just "affectionate" or "guys do it so why cant I?" Well I'm here to say that men and women can be sluts. Guys judge each other based on how many women they have had. The guy that has the most is viewed as "accomplished" or a "player". NO!!! You are a slut! A male slut is no better than a slutty female slut.

Men and women are equally disgusting now days and media and social stigma supports these behaviors. Almost every female actress has at least done unnecessary nude scenes in their careers. They are encouraged more and more to portray a more sexual role. All of the nudity in films is simply to sell tickets because as studies have shown sex sells. Instead of insinuating a sex scene like they used to most movies are practically soft core porn now. The guys are no better. Male actors are constantly playing the roles of the womanizer and shown as the cool character. Even outside of their roles most of the actors and actresses are actually sluts.

Sex should not be an activity for people to just do because its available. Sex is an expression of love for the person you are in a committed relationship with. Sex should not be a casual encounter, a fling, something to do out of boredom, or something expected as a night cap to a date. People disgust me by thinking that this is okay behavior. I don't care if you are single, that does not make casual sex okay. I am constantly hearing from people saying that it is okay to sleep with whoever they want because they are single. Being single does not make being a whore okay. If you are sleeping with someone that you are not wanting to be with then you are being a whore in my eyes.

People equal shit

I am annoyed by the stupidity of the general public so much that I decided to write about it. I cannot tell whether or not these people that irritate me so much are seriously this stupid or if they are trying to be funny. The one thing that is really accomplished is pissing me off to the point of giving up on any hope of society.