Beating Sense Into Women

Okay, why do abused women lie to protect the men abusing them. Every time that I encounter abusive relationships (not my relationships) the women either deny that there is any abuse or they try to rationalize why the abuse is taking place. This especially infuriates me when there are children involved. It is one thing for a woman to get into an abusive relationship and accept the abuse as "normal" when they are on their own, but when you have kids and you invite an abusive man into your home it is so much worse. When you invite abusive people to be around your children not only are you endangering yourself but also your kids! When the abuse is at home now I see you as 1. Dumb for accepting an abusive relationship and not doing anything about it and 2. You are now a negligent mother for endangering your children! I can respect women's right to be in any relationship they want. If you choose to stay in an abusive situation then that is on you. I do not agree with it and it does frustrate me knowing that you would be stupid enough to do that but it is your choice and you have to deal with the results. When  kids are in the picture however, that's where I can no longer stand by and accept your decision as just a stupid mistake. Even though you are the mother and those are your children, you have no right to allow someone to come into their lives and abuse them. I am sick and tired of this neglect happening all the time. Not only are these women allowing their kids to be beaten, but then they have the nerve to defend the guy beating them. This issue hits very close to home for me but I will not say what is happening or who is involved. All I will say is I will not just stand by and let this continue.

 As for all the men that are the abusers, you are the second lowest pieces of filth ever to walk the planet (in my eyes). There is no reason ever for a man to lay hands on a woman. I don't care what the woman has done or what she is doing, physical violence is never acceptable! If you really think that these women love you they don't. These abused women are just scared of you and are afraid to do the right thing because they know that you will just hurt them more. This is my thoughts of what an abused woman thinks in these types of relationships, " If he is willing to hit me just because of an argument or disagreement, what is he capable of if I try to leave him?" I am not defending these women at all because it should never get to the point of that kind of fear. The first time a man physically hurts a woman should be the last contact that woman should have with that man. Most men are physically stronger than women in general so why would you think that beating on someone physically weaker than you makes you worthy of anything?

I just wish that women would be smarter, not only for themselves but for their children. Stop being so selfish and make your kids your number one priority, not your desperation to be with someone.