Beating Sense Into Women

Okay, why do abused women lie to protect the men abusing them. Every time that I encounter abusive relationships (not my relationships) the women either deny that there is any abuse or they try to rationalize why the abuse is taking place. This especially infuriates me when there are children involved. It is one thing for a woman to get into an abusive relationship and accept the abuse as "normal" when they are on their own, but when you have kids and you invite an abusive man into your home it is so much worse. When you invite abusive people to be around your children not only are you endangering yourself but also your kids! When the abuse is at home now I see you as 1. Dumb for accepting an abusive relationship and not doing anything about it and 2. You are now a negligent mother for endangering your children! I can respect women's right to be in any relationship they want. If you choose to stay in an abusive situation then that is on you. I do not agree with it and it does frustrate me knowing that you would be stupid enough to do that but it is your choice and you have to deal with the results. When  kids are in the picture however, that's where I can no longer stand by and accept your decision as just a stupid mistake. Even though you are the mother and those are your children, you have no right to allow someone to come into their lives and abuse them. I am sick and tired of this neglect happening all the time. Not only are these women allowing their kids to be beaten, but then they have the nerve to defend the guy beating them. This issue hits very close to home for me but I will not say what is happening or who is involved. All I will say is I will not just stand by and let this continue.

 As for all the men that are the abusers, you are the second lowest pieces of filth ever to walk the planet (in my eyes). There is no reason ever for a man to lay hands on a woman. I don't care what the woman has done or what she is doing, physical violence is never acceptable! If you really think that these women love you they don't. These abused women are just scared of you and are afraid to do the right thing because they know that you will just hurt them more. This is my thoughts of what an abused woman thinks in these types of relationships, " If he is willing to hit me just because of an argument or disagreement, what is he capable of if I try to leave him?" I am not defending these women at all because it should never get to the point of that kind of fear. The first time a man physically hurts a woman should be the last contact that woman should have with that man. Most men are physically stronger than women in general so why would you think that beating on someone physically weaker than you makes you worthy of anything?

I just wish that women would be smarter, not only for themselves but for their children. Stop being so selfish and make your kids your number one priority, not your desperation to be with someone.

Charity Is Taboo??

Our country is full of self righteous greedy assholes! We complain that we do not get enough assistance, we need more food stamps, we need more welfare, give me more more more... We want more for doing nothing. We complain that all the help we receive is never enough. Then, when our fellow citizens decide to donate money, food, time, etc. to another country in need (for example the super typhoon in the Philippines) those same greedy bastards become outraged. "That (money/food/work) should stay here in America, we have people in need too!"
I agree that we need help in our country too but when we do get help it is abused and never appreciated. Every time I see a welfare parking lot all I see are new cars playing their expensive sound systems, with custom rims, people wearing all of the latest brands and fashions, and lots of jewelry (rings, necklaces, and even the stupid grill things on their teeth) all while standing in line to receive food stamps/cash aid because they "cannot afford to pay their bills and buy food". Our country is full of moronic people that expect to be taken care of. Women are having as many kids as possible knowing that the more they have the more money they will receive from the government and then they have the audacity to complain that it is not enough. Stop being reliant on someone else and get your lazy asses moving towards a more positive future. We need to be more self reliant and not so dependent on others to take care of our families. Most of all stop complaining when you see your fellow citizens decide to donate their own money to other countries.
Maybe people are more likely to donate to causes in other countries because they know that the people will be more appreciative of the help rather than our arrogant, narcissistic, self righteous assholes here in America. I know that life must be so hard for all of you with everything handed to you without any work done on your part (that is sarcasm for those too dumb to notice). Until our country can actually be grateful for what we have and appreciate what we are given, shut the hell up!!! Stop criticizing your fellow citizens for giving their help to others. We will be more likely to help those who actually show gratitude! Another thing is, This is their right to do with their money whatever they feel right. It is their choice to donate to certain causes. There are plenty of charity fundraisers for people here in the US and yet more people are willing to donate to outside organizations and that is their right. If you want more to go to the people here then you can donate here.

Ex's Go Away!

I hate when people try to talk to me like I have no clue what is going on. I am not an infant. I will not just accept whatever I am told. I do know a lot more than some people think. Why is it so hard for people to tell the truth? My ex-wife must have some mental disability or something seriously wrong with her. She lies about everything even the things that are not important at all. In fact if she would tell the truth it would actually be less harmful for all of the parties involved in just about every situation she has lied in. The most recent lies that are irritating me the most is about child support. She has made many, many attempts to raise the child support (even when I was already paying $880/month). I have talked to the child support offices many times and every time it is the same answer. I am told that she has made all of these requests and I am unable to file for reduction because she has a constant stream of requests filed. According to the child support offices I am unable to file a request for reduction until the other requests are dealt with. I really don't understand why she is doing this because the child support I have to pay doesn't even go to her or my children. The money I pay goes to the state because she has been on welfare for as long as I can remember now. The constant filing will not make a difference because of my income level but what really pisses me off is that she talks to me like I am an idiot!

Shut Up Already!!!

Almost everyone is complaining about all of the elected officials ruining our country. Well guess what, you elected them! You voted for all of their bills/laws! You are the reason our country is going to shit not any one individual. If you agree with portions of a bill/law but there are parts of it that worry you then you should vote against it until it is more reasonable. It is because of all the compromises that people are making thinking, " well, I agree with most of what they are saying". It is the small portions of these laws/bills that slip through the cracks creating the mess that we are in now. If you don't think the bill is perfect then don't accept it! It is a lot easier than most of you think. Stop accepting these motions or stop complaining about them! It is your fault and I am tired of hearing all the complaining about the president or a certain party ruining our economy.

Yes our politicians are corrupt, yes they come up with horrible ideas, and yes they are all liars, but you are the one that voted for them and you are the one that fell for the lies and deceitfulness. So just shut up and accept what you have done to this country instead of trying to put the blame on specific individuals!!!